Letters to passed LOVE ONES

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Comment by MAYA Sis of the Sun on May 19, 2009 at 5:00pm

Nice to find that Place....

Comment by Zacky on January 12, 2009 at 3:40pm

Dear Barbara! I am so sorry I wrote you a sad letter. I will Rectify that here. Although I must say to you heartfelt how much I miss you. My sister, My mother, My Best Friend. With nobody to share my birthday with, it lost its meaning. I still share it in my heart with you. You are never far from me I know. I am sorry for the crying and the despair. OK OK I do not want to get in trouble again! Ha ha
I celebrate your life and every day you lived. Because of you I am who I am. I never forgot your love and your lessons! When I give I give in your name. when I win I win in your light. I take you with me in my heart I love your Grandkids and enjoy that you can see them growing up! We talk about you all the time and we do not cry as much. I am glad you are happy there and you are doing good work. I am glad you are home. I am glad I am here still carrying on with my life path. The day I die will be bitter sweet for me as I wll leave loved ones to grieve but I will selfishly be so excited to be with you once again. If you are so happy there I know I will be too! Never can the words bored and Barbara be in the same sentence! We will party and get up to so much interesting things! I hope you have plans for me when I get there. I am doing my best I really am to exault you and not mourn. I am sorry if I miss your physical body and voice. Thank you for the card you sent. And thank you for the love.
Love you
Little Sissy
Scooter

Comment by Butterflieswings on January 12, 2009 at 12:34pm

My dearest Bright and sparkling star Allon !
I miss you so much, some days you seem very far away, but other days i feel your Laughter in the room ! I miss your all encompassing enhusiasm and your wild humour ! I laugh when i remember the days we spent jamming in the park on the guitars and the cold baked bean sandwiches. You are so very special to me and always will be , i think you know that now and i,m sorry i never got to tell you except in the last conversation we had exactly how much i love you !! I wish i had come over to Nz when you called and i,m sorry i didnt ....... i hope you can forgive me for not realizing how sad you were and hope your pain is lifted now ! Everytime i see a shooting star i think of you and everytime they play tears in heaven i know its you reminding me your never far away. I,m always holding your hand in my heart , and will always be your sunny girl..... I love you and know i will see you when i get there ....hope the rollerskates are fun!!! Ruth :):):)

Comment by Brenda on January 7, 2009 at 7:18am

Mutt,
What can I say to you but I miss you and love you so much! The last days you were here with us you were so sick and in so much pain I dont think you could hear me tell you that I love you.I was there Mutt when you took your last breath and It felt as if someone had ground my heart into a million pieces. You were with us through all our lives and helped me take care of Aaron and Jake...You were just like our Mom too and the best Aunt anyone could ask for! Mom misses you so much too.She told me you told her just a little while before you passed that you wished you and her had a bed in the same room just so you could just sit and watch over you while she slept,well now you can and I have felt you watching over us many times!I LOVE YOU MUTT! I miss your phone calls everyday to check on me and the kids.I wish I had another day with you to just sit at your feet and talk again...I took so much for granted but now I know that every day we have with each other is a gift. Rest now and know we will all be together again.......

Comment by Brenda on January 7, 2009 at 7:07am

Daddy,
I miss you so much and want so bad for you to hold Mom for only a moment to ease her pain.Since you have crossed I have grown so much! I'm sure you know that Mutt has passed as well and we miss you both so.
Daddy I took for granted the love and hard work that you provided us all with.If I could just hug you and tell you that I LOVE YOU and am so proud to have you as my daddy I could rest and not feel so burdened with grief and sorrow.I am sorry Daddy I was not there the day David put the refrigerator in for you...I didnt know that you were going to get so sick.I guess I just thought you were my Daddy and you would never go away......So I have been given the chance to say those words here and so I will.
I LOVE YOU DADDY,YOU WERE THE BEST AND NO ONE WILL EVER TAKE YOUR PLACE>THANK YOU FOR ALL THE YEARS OF HARD WORK, LOVE AND DEDICATION....SOON WE WILL ALL BE TOGETHER!!!!
Your little girl

Comment by Moongirl on January 6, 2009 at 5:04pm

I know what you mean about wanting to interact more, and not knowing how. That is why I thought it would be good to have a place that we can talk to them outside our own heads.

I dont see or hear (that I am consciously aware of), but I do find myself chatting to different ones in my head for no apparent reason. In my letter to my Grandfather, for me it was an affirmation and acknowledgement from me to him. I so wish I could do it better, but obviously I am not ready yet - it will come in time.

I reckon we can talk about all loved ones in here - any time there is somthing we want to say - good or bad - clear the air, resolve unfinished business, or just to say I love and miss you.

Love, Toni

Love, Toni